Last year we offered immediate support to over 10,000 people affected by crime in Avon and Somerset, and gave in-depth support to nearly 1,800 people.
‘It wasn’t until I spoke to Kath that I realised there was someone out there who cared.’
John, a victim of burglary, has been in touch with Kath at Avon and Somerset Victim Support since July 2015. As well as giving John emotional support, Kath is providing practical help too, like writing letters to the council on John’s behalf to try to improve his housing situation. Here John, 64, describes the impact the burglary has had on him and how Kath is helping him find the strength to move on.
I’ve been a strong man all my life.
I became very depressed after the burglary.
I became totally paranoid — anytime anyone walked past the window, I was there. It wasn’t a nice feeling and it was totally alien to me. I had thought I was stronger than that. It was a real kick in the teeth for me.
Talking to Kath at Victim Support is so helpful.
I explain everything to her and she listens. She is so sympathetic and she puts me at ease. We might talk for a good half an hour or 45 minutes every week. Usually, she calls me at an arranged time but I did call her once when I was really down, and she was brilliant.
Kath is helping me try to move up the housing list.
I live in a basement flat and because I’ve got a crumbling spine and arthritis of the hips — sometimes I can’t get up the stairs to go to the shops. It wasn’t until I started speaking to Kath that I realised there was someone out there who cared and would try to help if they could. She has written letters to the council for me and organised for an occupational therapist to come and assess me and the flat. I’m keeping everything crossed now.
I really don’t know what I’d have done without Kath — I don’t like to think about it.
Without her I’d be a crumbling wreck. Speaking to Kath has helped me come to terms with everything. She’s given me the encouragement to carry on. She still calls me once or twice a week. I do feel a lot better now, but I want to keep talking to Kath until I feel totally secure in myself.
Victim Support is very important to me.
As I’ve said, I’m a strong man, but they helped me. So if there’s someone out there who’s not as strong as I am, they’ll definitely need Victim Support. So I recommend Victim Support to everybody.