Abusive relationships

An abusive relationship is when someone has power and control over you or another person. They may make you feel worthless, threaten you or be violent towards you. Abusive relationships can be very confusing, as you may still love the person abusing you and want to make them happy.

This content has been written for children and young people. If you’re looking for information for over 18s, visit our Types of Crime information about abuse.

Domestic violence explained

It can happen when people live together, live separately or even when they have split up.

Forced marriage

If you are being made to get married when you don't want to, this is a forced marriage.

'Honour-based' violence

When someone in your family or community hurts or threatens to hurt you because of this, it is called 'honour-based' violence (HBV).

Spotting abusive behaviour

A healthy relationship should make you feel happy – not controlled, trapped, threatened or hurt.

Stalking and harassment

This is when someone tries to make contact with you in a way that makes you feel scared, upset or threatened.